I’m an expert on relationships, and have worked with people around the world as a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Mentor. My specialty is supporting purposeful women and men to transform their distant and lonely relationships so they can feel connected, joyful, and ALIVE again in their relationships and in their lives. My goal is to revolutionize marriage and relationships so couples no longer live in hopeless burnout, and instead wake up every day energized, passionate, and inspired!
I thrive on getting relationships to that next level of connection and inspiration, including the couples that have tried all the things, and nothing seems to be working.
If you’re ready to take action and start making some true transformation, not just for your relationship, but for yourself, your family, and your life, you’re in the right place!
"My partner and I were facing a few issues in our 15-year relationship, and were ambivalent about seeking help--would it be a waste of time, a waste of money, or even make things worse between us? I'm so happy we found Shena.
Thanks to Shena, my partner and I are back on track, stronger than ever, and ready to take on the world again together. We cannot praise Shena highly enough, and would happily recommend her to anyone seeking help with their relationship.
Thank you Shena!"
- Phillip, Artist
"We began the class going through a difficult transition, and we ended with a newfound sense of purpose and direction.
I entered with very little expectation, and I had a life changing experience. The class was transformative in real time, I found myself using the insights gained in the teachings right away.
I can't recommend the work you did enough to everyone that matters in my life.
Shena is an intuitive teacher, thanks a million for being such a wonderful human being. Thank you, thank you, thank you!”
- Leo, Digital Creative Design
"OMG, it worked like a miracle cure!"
- Bita, Freelance Revolutionary
"Yes, I recommend it! If you are serious about experiencing positive transformation in your relationship, you should take this course.
Thank you and wow!”
- Anna, Attorney
"Shena kept me from getting stuck when I feared there was no changing things. My partner, friends, and clients are all so grateful to see my shift. Thank you for opening a new door for me."
- Kristin, Holistic Healthcare Provider
"It was Amazing! Yes! I recommend it!
The workshop was an evocative journey into the heart of your relationship joys and challenges. It gets to the core of where each partner needs to grow. Shena offered activities and practices to delve into that core.
I left knowing myself and my partner better, feeling hopeful for the future.”
- Erica. Psychotherapist
"I am so thankful to you for helping me get out of my rut. So much has changed in my life, I am the happiest I have ever been with my relationship and my music career, and I really have you to thank for that!”
– Charlotte, Musician, Mother
"Relationships take constant feeding. This is the place to find relationship food.”
– Rob, Engineer
"I began with Shena during a stormy transition in my life; she and the teachings were a bright lighthouse on a warm shore. Her knowledge of her area of expertise is exquisite. I learned things about myself that might’ve taken me years to find out.
I’m now able to face conflicts, inside myself or with others, with a calmness that I had never accessed before. I find myself speaking my truth more easily, and because of it, I’m experiencing life in a completely new and joyful way.
I can’t even express my gratitude for having found her. She has truly changed the course of my life.
I can’t thank you enough. Thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart.”
- Hilary, Holistic Health Coach
"I recognized patterns in myself and my partner – and realized I have the ability and control to change them.
This workshop is beneficial for those who need a reboot for connection. I definitely recommend it!”
- Smitha, Marriage Therapist
"Something resonated deeply in a brief talk of Shena’s I attended. It was matter of fact, pragmatic and immediately applicable. I contacted her and I didn’t know what to expect, but I was thrown head first into a journey I am eternally grateful for and the efforts continue to reverberate.
I received what I came for and more. As a teacher and mentor I found her acute understanding of the knowledge to be not only academic but very personal, which in turn helped me to use it empirically and intuitively. Shena has worked hard for this knowledge and is sharing it to the willing. She has a map.
Thank you for being there for us. I am still moved by your passion and commitment to the teachings and for your students.”
- Joel, Composer
"You will get more out of it than you might imagine. Simple tools can produce amazing results. Thank you! I learned a lot!!! I recommend it to others."
- Daniel, Relationship Counselor
"Shena rates an 11 out of 10. When I first began with Shena, I was really on a downhill slide, dealing with relationship collapse. Her initial approach was to give me the tools and guidance needed to help with the immediate problems, getting things turned around and back on track. We were then able to explore more of the underlying issues from both past and present.
Always caring and empathic, but also challenging when it was perhaps needed, Shena's comforting and guiding nature has been immeasurably helpful.
I cannot imagine a better person to recommend.”
- John, Photographer
"She helped us better understand each other, delving deep as individuals and as a couple. She helped us mature as a couple and broach tough conversations under the surface.
We’ve learned a lot about working as a team from her, and we highly recommend her to any couples seeking help with their relationship, and anyone in general.
Thanks Shena!”
- Han, Programming Engineer
You have commitment but long for connection.
You’re exhausted trying to make your partner happy.
But it’s just not working…
You don’t know if you can bring yourself to calling it quits, but you can’t live like this anymore.
You hoped you could work through it if you loved each other enough, but love and dedication are not enough. It takes specialized understanding and skill to shift patterns and dynamics that are not working.
And you don’t want it to just work. You want more than a roommate. You want to feel deeply connected, to matter. You don’t want to feel like you’re walking on eggshells. You want fun, ease, meaningful intimacy, incredible passion, and to trust that your partner is there for you no matter what.
I've got you.
Most relationship advice and even in-depth therapy and coaching programs are just band-aid fixes. Date nights, “I” statements, endless processing, the sexy lingerie… It’s fine for a temporary fix, but it doesn’t get to the underlying source of the issue, and you’ll become exhausted re-hashing the same old thing. There’s a huge difference between learning how to say or do the right thing, and learning how to have an unshakable, solid, and meaningful relationship.
Get back to the good!
My work with my clients is different from anything out there. I teach people in relationships how to single-handedly take massive action to transform their relationships so they can get back to waking up every day energized and ready to take on the world together, making a positive difference in their work, and creating a life filled with meaningful moments.
If you’re ready to explore a change, take my free masterclass that will show you the exact process my clients use to create the relationship they're truly desiring deep down, without getting burnt out on endless processing or temporary fixes.
What Successful Couples Are Doing to Create a Connected, Thriving Relationship